One of the eLove reviewers on this site said that they thought there should be a class action suit against eLove. I fell for the trap too. Keep an eye on your inbox, the lastest consumer news is on it's way! My first referral didn't call. The site guarantees a certain number of matches. About 3 years ago I joined eLove. They used my husband's death and they insured me that they had matches for me.